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Playing with Love
You are never too old to play games. Well, there are some gamesyou shouldn’t be playing at this point in your relationship. Youshouldn’t be playing on his or her guilt and you shouldn’t bemanipulating in order to get what you want. Those games areunacceptable, inappropriate and they will only serve todeteriorate any trust and respect that might exist in yourmarriage. The kind of games I’m talking about includes havingfun with each other. You can have fun with each other everysingle day you are married! Fun only takes a moment or you cantake much longer if you have the time. Fun and love go hand inhand as well as allow a partnership to grow in laughter andtrust.Start playing games with each other on a regular basis. You canplay board games or you can make up games of your own. Tryrole-playing games! They can be plain silly or they can turninto very intimate encounters. The wonderful thing about playinggames with your spouse is that you learn a great deal about eachother while building trust. You can even reenact wonderful timesyou’ve had together. If you had an incredible first date, goback to the place you had your date, relive the moments and eventry to reenact the most special moments.You may not know about it, but you might actually know a couplewhom already plays a very common yet private game among couples.It’s basically a ‘hide and seek’ game that goes on, well,forever! You and your spouse choose an object and you each taketurns to ‘return’ it to the other in creative ways. Some spouseshave had the objects expressed mailed to them, others hid it ina place special to their spouse and other couples usedintermediate individuals to deliver the object like flightattendants or waiters.True trust can come from playing games in the bedroom- as wellas a ton of fun! Start your morning by planning to make lovethat night. Try to keep ‘foreplay’ going all day long. Call yourspouse with reminders and teasers about what is going to happen,what you want to do and how your partner makes you feel. By thetime you both reach the bedroom, you will both feel as if you’vespent hours at foreplay.Play some fun games while you’re out with your spouse. When youare at the mall, commit to kissing every time you see anothercouple holding hands. (Unfortunately, you might not be kissingas often as you think.) Kiss at each stop sign or stop light.Make love at unusual locations like changing rooms, rest stopsor restrooms. Role-playing is a popular game among adults. One of the mostpopular role-playing games is to pretend you aren’t married andyou are having an affair with each other. Carry out all of theactions you think might be involved in an affair including howyou would act, what you would do and where you would go. Devote a day to both of you as a couple. Take some of theseideas or some of your own ideas and use them in order to spendtime together, learn about each other and laugh as hard as youcan.
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